Lay Report #2

So about 5 minutes later I get a text:

Her: “Hey”
Her: Sends sexy picture

Me: “Hey Sexy”
Me: Sends shirtless picture

Her: “How are you?”

Me: “Good.. Looking for fun”

Her: “Where are you from originally ?”
Her: “Me too”

Me: “I was born here.. My heritage is Italian/Russian.”

Her: “Cool.”
Her: “Would you like to come ?”

Okay so right there its pretty much good to go. Of course nothing is 100% committed until I’m actually in her apartment. But the way the conversation is moving along I have a pretty good feeling she's for real and won’t flake.

The rest of it is just setting up the meet up. However, in the middle, I got an email response from another girl who I wrote to earlier.

T-Girl #2: “Hey, whats your number?”
Me: “I give her my number.”

Now, I don’t necessarily advise double booking in the same night, however I do it all the time if possible. So if you want to go for it. However it sometimes backfires, as it did last night.

T-Girl #2: “Hey, you wanna come over?”
Me: “Hey give me a few minutes I’m going in the shower.”

Now since 2007 I almost always double, triple, quadruple book the same night. I do this not because I’m a sex addict (although I might be) but rather because typically one or more of the girls will flake at some point. This way, even if one girl flakes, I could still end up fucking the backup girl.

Unfortunately, one too many times, nobody flakes and I’m stuck with a dilemma, which is what happened last night. Now there are many different ways to handle this situation. Over the years I have handled them the right way, and also the wrong way (which really sucks sometimes). So last night I chose to take the approach of just ignoring T-Girl #2.

As I’m on my way to the original girls apartment in Queens:

T-Girl #2: “Fuck you.”
T-Girl #2: “Delete my number.”

I chose not to respond to this. It’s unfortunate because T-Girl number 2 was very cute. If I could go back in time, I would have definitely handled the situation a little bit better. I could have easily just said “Hey I’m still at work, I’ll let you know when I get out.” Then, I could have even fucked T-Girl number 2 after I was done with the first girl.